Monday, September 12, 2005

ADVICE!!!

Ok my online friend Lisa has a problem and needs some advice. I told her what I think but she needs for opinons.

Anyway, a long time ago her girlfriend of 5 yrs cheated on her with this other girl named Jenny and now Jenny is talking to her almost everyday and acting like they are the best of friends. Lisa and her girlfriend are still together BTW. What should Lisa do? Friends or Not? She could really use your help.

Shannon

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

she should keep an eye on her girlfriend and the would be friend cause the girl should becareful and shouldnt bad mouth one around the other

Anonymous said...

first of all she doesn't know if she is doing anything with the other girl. so all i can say is she shouldn't pry too much or she will break the trust she has for her if she has any for her. but keep close tabs on her to where she doesn't know that you are doing it. and if later she find out something is going on between her and this girl. take bigger steps.

Anonymous said...

Being that I have been in that situation only in a straight Marraige. I would say, let the girl know how she feels. Tell her up front that because of the past trust will have to be earned and If she cant handle it she should at least sit down and talk to her girlfriend about it

The_Sphinx said...

I agree,trust has to be earned and broken trust is even harder to fix ,so yeah thats my 2 cents.